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Saved by sand – A new blood clotting material is saving lives
POLICE detective Danny ohnson was on patrol outside Tampa, Florida, when a report came through of a possible shooting in a junkyard three blocks away. Arriving on the scene, he found an elderly man sitting on a tractor, with a large hole in his leg that was bleeding profusely. Realising it would be some time…
Read MoreGetting Some Help
Getting some help CONSUMERS and others looking for medical information that is not steeped in technical jargon or written for the highly literate have several choices available. They include: 1. Ask Me 3, sponsored by the Partnership for Clear Health Communication, offers a printable list of the three basic questions it says patients should ask…
Read MoreDrug addiction – Denial is the chain that prevents addicts from seeking treatment
Drug addiction of the addict. One must show authentic care for the chemically dependent person. In short, you are presenting the moment of truth lovingly. Whenever possible, engage the help of a professional. The skilled and experienced counsellor will need to turn the crisis into a solvable problem. Rapport must be established quickly as this…
Read MoreThe Buzz on Parents
You thought the kids were mean and cliquish…all of us (parents) are inevitably going to get into conflict with other adults about our children. Some things, like cliques, influence whether we go through problems well or badly. The silent treatment. Whispered gossip. Cliques. For those who thought they’d left such torments behind in adolescence, becoming…
Read MoreWhen should parents confront each other?
I get that it’s important to pick your battles, but at a certain point you do have to pick a battle. The thing is that you really must demand of yourself and other people that they treat each other civilly. Parents should not be allowed to be in a parent meeting and get away with…
Read MoreWhat are the biggest mistakes parents make in dealing with other adults, such as teachers and coaches?
Parents should not act like everything is a life-and-death problem-from a bad grade to not playing on the team to not getting a part in the play. If somebody is going to die in the next five minutes, then you move. If not, then you sit down and you figure out what you are going…
Read MoreWhat factors make it hard for parents to communicate with each other?
In Washington, the issues of race and social class are really complex and very alive, but no one talks about it. Religion can be a filter. Even these humongous houses people live in can be a filter. From my conversations with parents, what emerges is that there’s a really unspoken thing going on between white…
Read MoreHow do baby boomer parents differ from Gen X parents in their attitudes toward conflict?
Boomer parents want a feel-good answer that solves the problem with no messiness. They don’t want their kid to experience pain. Their issues are more about not wanting to say no to their children. Gen X parents have a herd mentality that you really see when it comes to technology. They don’t ever question why…
Read MoreWhat is the Queen Bee Mom and the Kingpin Dad?
The Queen Bee Mom is highly socially and academically intelligent. She can make you do things and you don’t it because it’s so subtle-often in the guise of bing complimentary. She’s appropriately dressed, often in the conservative style, but not dowdy. She’s effortlessly perfect. Queen Bees can be amazing leaders, but they always have to…
Read MoreWho joins a mom clique and why?
This is not about mean girls growing up to be mean moms, but rather about how all of us are inevitably going to get into conflict with other adults and how things like groups influence whether we go through problems well or badly. What i see with mom cliques is that they are most prevalent…
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